im freakin’ out somebody please help me !! ..?

im freakin out , me and my fiance have a baby on the way , i am 19 weeks pregnant , and weve hit a bit of a bump . he doesnt want to sleep in the bed with me , or have sex , he slept in the living room , all last night , i went into the room because i was tired from cleaning and busting my ass all day , while he left me ALLLL day to go fishing with his friends , i asked him to come in and spend some alone time with me , because our roommate was out in the living room , ( hes a male ) and he got mad because i wanted to go into the bedroom , but iw as to tired to stay up any longer , he slept in the living room , and i fell asleep early , i came out to get a drink at 2:30 am and he was gone out somewhere , * this morning he said he went to smoke outside * but he ALWAYS leaves me int he middle of the night , today i went with my grandmother for about an hour to superstore , and he blamed him going fishing again today on me going out and the way i was acting * when i didnt even do anything * so he left to go fishing again with his friends , so since he was leaving , and since im pregnant and stressing so much , i thought why not go and relax considering how much im stressing , and than he comes in and says you better fucking stop acting like this before you do somehting fuckin’ stupid . , he doesnt even shower for me anymore , the only time he showers is when he goes "fishing " i had to give up most of my friends and family because he doesnt want me going out without him or talking to my friends , im not even aloud to go up to my cousins house ( AND SHES LIKE 54 ) he gets mad when i do . i love him so much , and i dont know how to get him to stop acting like this . he always blames the way he acts on me , he doesnt know how to take responsibility for his actions , he doesnt even work , so he doesnt have an excuse to not spend at least a little bit of time with me , this is really really hurting me , and stressin me out , last night i was laying in bed , and my stomache was killing me , all i can feel are cramps , and same as today , and im kind of starting to get scared …. = ( help me fix this , i love him and want us to work things out . and if i dont want to fight and dont talk because i dont want to fight he gets mad because im not talking , and when i do talk we fight and he gets mad because i stick up for myself ……. i want to fix this … help me please ??? io dont want my baby to be brought up in a broken home = (

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  1. I don’t think i’d be able to answer your question properly because i’ve never dealt with it before. However you seem like you really need an answer so i’d say the only place that would really help you is datingreform It’s a site I heard about where anyone from anywhere in the world that went through the same experiences/problems as you’re going through are able to post their own advice on the topic for other people such as yourself to read. I believe they’re even running a contest where whoever posts the most advice and helps the most people earns themselves $500. So you should be able to get some decent help. Check it out hopefully it’ll help you with your current situation and any others that you might need help with. The site again is datingreform.c o m
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